For God, For Country ... For Love
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In his impoverished but happy rural existence in the backwoods of Virginia, the hardworking and reliable Dalton dreamt of earning enough money to buy his own farm. However by dint of circumstance, he was destined to take part in one of the most iconic events of the 20th century - being amongst the first U.S. soldiers to land on Omaha Beach, June 6th 1944.
Far away from Virginia, in metropolitan London, the teenage Hetty was the envy of all with her attractive looks and personality, successful job and her pick of dance partners.
Little did Hetty and Dalton know that their paths would cross, throwing their plans for the future into turmoil.
In this compelling book we are privileged to share the thoughts, hopes and anguish of two young people as they are caught up in the chaos and brutality of war. Can they overcome the many obstacles in their path and will their love survive?
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About this book...
In his impoverished but happy rural existence in the backwoods of Virginia, the hardworking and reliable Dalton dreamt of earning enough money to buy his own farm. However by dint of circumstance, he was destined to take part in one of the most iconic events of the 20th century - being amongst the first U.S. soldiers to land on Omaha Beach, June 6th 1944.
Far away from Virginia, in metropolitan London, the teenage Hetty was the envy of all with her attractive looks and personality, successful job and her pick of dance partners.
Little did Hetty and Dalton know that their paths would cross, throwing their plans for the future into turmoil.
In this compelling book we are privileged to share the thoughts, hopes and anguish of two young people as they are caught up in the chaos and brutality of war. Can they overcome the many obstacles in their path and will their love survive?
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For God ... - Alan Emery - 28 December 2012
The book is everything the reviewers claim. I was amazed at the thorough and acurate research - I was in the Royal Artillery. I was ten when the Yanks arrived and saw both sides of the coin. The handling of the more sensitive issues was first class and brought an emotional response which is rare for me. A very enjoyable read.
Compelling read - Lesley O'Hara - 22 April 2013
I found this true story of two peoples endeavours for love and happiness, captivating. The detail and descriptions gave me a vivid picture of events leading up to and after the Omaha landings and the quest to find hapiness in the years to follow. An emotional, compelling read.
Loved ever word - Lynne Hirleman, Iowa, USA - 30 December 2020
Just writing to say I finished your book and just loved every word written in it. What a work of love and passion. So sorry your father didn't live to see the final book. I am almost 73, female and live in Iowa. I was born in Berlin in 1947 when my father was stationed there after WWII and my mother was allowed to join him there. So in some ways, I felt like I was reading about a time in my parents' lives. My husband and I recently took a trip to Paris and one day toured Omaha Beach with a great guide, so I could visualize some of the horror of that landing on D-Day. We also saw the American cemetery there and I weep even now when I remember seeing the graves of all those mostly young men who gave their lives to halt Hitler and protect democracy. Thank you so much for telling your family's story. It was an honor to read it. Sincerely Lynne Hirleman
Congrats on an excellent work - Joe LeMense. Washington DC - 21 November 2015
I just finished your excellent account of your parents lives together from youth in war through old age in peace. You sir, are an excellent raconteur and I found your writing style lovely and free flowing. My father also served in WWII though far away in the Pacific. It pains me, now that he is long gone, that those battlefields were not accessible. I would have enjoyed the material and perhaps, with your book as example, tried my hand at a similar tome of love, life, and war.
A born author. - Billy Poole - 28 June 2017
This is truly a remarkable book, which leaves an indelible impression on the reader: it is a story that you will never forget reading. In its different scenes, readers will actually feel they are there themselves such is the authenticity and empathy of the writing. As well as telling the story with real sympathy and understanding, the author underpins everything with precise factual detail - which must have taken some considerable time to research and master. Slaughter is a born author. Let us hope he finds another subject with which he can connect so powerfully and produces another both as vivid and moving as this one is.
Had to visit grave. - Jacqueline Meyers - 13 January 2016
Read your book which really touched me and had to visit your Dad's grave. Left a penny on his tombstone in his honour ( old tradition when visiting a soldiers grave to let family know someone was thinking of their loved one).
Most moving story. - Peter Vallance - 09 October 2016
Hi Robbie. We met in June this year at Musee Memorial and I bought your book. Well, I have read it and I have to tell you that it is one of the most moving stories that I have read referencing WW2. The natural and very personal way that you have written it made it so easy to read and follow. It must have been very hard for you at times to make public some very personal family matters that happened never mind the romantic involvement of your mum and dad. The amount of research you did shines through and at times I was surprised how much parallel relative information you included which added to the overall understanding of the story. On a personal note, that you might find an interesting coincidence, we met very close to where Dalton landed in France. We had our caravan very close to where he went after breaking out from the beach head. On his return to England following his injuries, he was in the hospital at St Leonard's, Dorset and that was where we were in yet another caravan holiday. Believe when I tell you, that made me feel even closer to Dalton. Forgive me for saying that, but your book just invited emotional involvement and I wasn't resistant to that fact. Well last night I finished your excellent tome and again I have to tell you that I had a certain amount of moisture in my eye! Thanks again Robbie for a marvellous book. Kind regards Peter Vallance.
Incredible achievement - Peter Hayden (Author) Bewdley - 16 February 2013
Robbie - I just want to say, I finished it five minutes ago, right through to page 709, finding the pump. I expected to read maybe a hundred pages, skim the rest and write you a polite e mail - in fact, it's amazing. I'm full of admiration and a bit of envy. Everything you've written springs to life, your empathy is intense equally for the military action, for life in London, for the tranquility of Virginia, and for the female as much as the male characters. I can't get over it.
Excellent job - Jean Jeffreys (Virginia Beach, VA) - 28 May 2013
Excellent job Mr Slaughter. I've never xperienced anything like it, not from anything written down. I was struck by the enormity of what your dad went through, not just in the army but also putting up with Hetty's family the way he did. That Jimmy, I got so angry with him. I cried and I cried over the epilogue and I had already shed so many tears through the book. But the human side and the love they showed fo r each other was so uplifting. I felt as if I was standing to one side watching events. What a loving tribute to your dad and your mum. Dont blame your mum for not staying at the home place, what a brave woman, so young and how she loved your dad to go against her family like that. I read every word even the list of men of B Company who died. I'm sure Hetty's love for Dalton gave him the spark which helped him through those dreadful days in Normandy. I think it was a miracle you you found the water pump. Excellent. Fine job.
Hedgerow by hedgerow - Jocelyn Shannon (Hereford) - 29 March 2013
Don't know how to put into words what I've experienced in reading your book. Extraordinary, really is. Read the book, step by step, hedgerow by hedgerow. You took me with them, immersed in their lives, pulled at my heart strings. Excellent research, learnt more about WW2 in the few months Dalton was involved than had known before. So different, so unique and I read a lot. Excellent balance between historical and personal.
Darn good story - Peter Noonan (Hagley West Mids) - 22 January 2013
I became really involved with the characters. I have visited several of the places mentioned in the book and the description was perfect and brought them to life. I taught history in schools and the book covers many aspects of history without the reader even realising they are being educated as they read! I think the story would make a good film. I wonder how Dalton got on with Jimmy after Dalton returned to England and if Jimmy ever got back into cricket?
Great Read - Andy Bembridge - 28 June 2016
Hi Robbie, met you at the St Laurent Museum on 5th June and bought your book. I was the guy who was following his father's footsteps in the Black Watch and the one with the Willys jeep. I just want to let you know how much I enjoyed reading your family's journey, I finished it 12th June. It was so well written I honestly felt that I was with them. You have not only recorded history, you have kept it alive. More than once I was moved to tears WELL DONE. You have inspired me to carry on with my quest to follow the rest of my father's journey through France and into Germany where his war ended after being shot. If you still want to stay in touch I would be happy to give you a ride in the 1943 Willys I have. Thanks again for a great read. Warm regards Andy Bembridge.
You are an excellent writer. - Charles Smith - California - 26 June 2017
Thoroughly enjoyed your book from every aspect; your father's southern upbringing and your mother's English upbringing, your loving depiction of your parent's courtship and of course, my main interest, the Normandy Invasion human angle. You are an excellent writer. The account of your father's wounding and recuperation was well done. I was especially interested in your mother's reaction to the family farm. My mother's North Carolina family farm had been in the family since the revolutionary war and had no running water or electricity - both your parents experienced major culture shock in pursuit of their love. Very nice. Your father was part of the greatest generation. That is why I do what I do, touring the battle fields, interviewing them and honouring their sacrifice. I'm glad the 29th Infantry Div Association is using your book for excerpts. Our current warriors need to know their history. (Your book is currently making the rounds with my buddies).
Fantastic read - Jenny Blakeway - 18 July 2013
Well I have finished it! When Val gave it to me at Christmas I did think oh my God what a big book I will never get through that. I was proved wrong and what a fantastic read it was, you should be so proud of what you have achieved. A history lesson and love story all in one. I have seen many documentaries about GI brides and the American landings of D Day but your depth of detail was amazing. Our dad never talked about his wartime experiences he shut them away, so to have all the knowledge your father and friends gave you was wonderful. Your parents had a very special love affair and I am priviledged to have been able to know all about them.
Amazing - Michelle Smith - 22 May 2016
Mark finally lent me your book which I have devoured in about a week lol. Not at all my normal read and I found some of the technical war stuff hard going but overall amazing. Your father's perspective on war I found fascinating but then I guess you have to detach to a point or go insane. I'm curious as to why you literally give yourself a passing mention and how your brother fared in life and if you're still close to family and go back to Virginia. I'm glad you persevered with the book, it's quite an eye opener. Obviously everyone is aware, but to actually read a personal account makes it actually quite incredulous. Unbelievable how so many actually suffered/died in those horrendous circumstances and how anyone could carry out a normal life afterwards. So, love at first sight does exist lol and romance is not dead. Touches the soft side of my soul (rarely evident) and gives me hope. Had me in tears at the end but that's a sign of an amazing read that engages the reader so thank you.
Jonny Baird - Jonny Baird - 04 April 2013
Robbie, a truly enjoyable read ! Gripping story and very hard to put down. The incredible amount of research shines through, my knowledge of that part of history is now so much better. The shocking story's of suffering and the 'friendly fire' casualty's of WW2 are truly disturbing. A job very well done ,you should be proud. Jonny Baird, Passy ,France
Great Read - Mary (Church Hill) - 04 February 2013
I finished your book a few weeks ago and really enjoyed it; I don't know if enjoyed is the right word because I was in tears many times. You did a fantastic job even though you say you're not a writer, your family should be proud of you and it, as well as the sad bits there is also great humour and how you describe things in detail is fantastic. I had never given that war (or any war) much thought only that it is very wrong and should not be. Reading of the terrible suffering and loss of so many young lives that you describe in such detail shows how deplorable it was. Wasn't your father incredibly strong and the fact that things turned out well for him and your mother was great, for some reason he wasn't meant to buy that farm in Virginia - don't know whether you're glad or sorry about that! I'm sure you will agree that life was good for them in this country, both living quite healthy lives into old age - your father longer than other members of his family says something. (Your mother died on the same date as my mother - 27 May - my mother was 1988, both suddenly, so that was poignant to say the least.)
Worth the wait! - Dennis Howell (Bromsgrove) - 19 February 2013
A good read and worth the wait! Historical, romantic, grim, new beginnings - it's all there - human life with its trials and tribulations, strengths and frailties. The sharply contrasting pre-war lives in Virginia and Paddington - a war time romance with its difficulties - the grim reality and horror of the landings and the ensuing battle - the problems of early married life - as intended a tribute to Dalton - also to Hetty. I knew most of the story - now I feel I know and understand more about the couple, increasing my admiration of them. A well told story!
Enthralling - Julie Scarle - 19 February 2013
I found this book enthralling. It was an excellent story, well written and told. I thoroughly enjoyed it.
Just read this book.... - Val McTurk - 30 November 2012
This book gripped me from the very first page and held me until the last. It is the story of an unassuming young man drawn away from his desire to simply farm the land of his forebears by war. It follows his journey from America to Britain and on to the beaches of France. Along the way he meets a Britsh girl who becomes the love of his life. The book is written with incredible attention to detail. Vivid descriptions of nature reflect the mood swings and emotions of the major characters, together with impending events. These descriptions create suspense and give the reader a sense of foreboding about what is about to take place. The book gives insight into the historical, political, and social issues of the time whilst being a real 'good read'. I absolutely loved this book.
Beautifully written. - Colin Taylor, Arganchy, France - 12 May 2016
Met you in St Mere Eglise last year and have finally got round to reading your book. I have to say it was beautifully written and you take away the feeling that you have been reading about people you have known all your life, you weave the family with the military aspects beautifully. Your book is an excellent addition to the cannon of work that is WW2 and I hope it goes from strength to strength. I will add it to the reading list that I pass to all my customers, pointing it out in the various bookshops of museums that they visit also. Well done and congratulations on a fine work. I sincerely hope it will not be your last.
Poignant - Glyn Cardy of Crabbs Cross, Redditch - 27 April 2021
I have just finished reading the above; which I found both poignant and compelling. I was carried along by the narrative and how in an abstract way, my own life followed a similar progression - mirrored in your story. I left home ay 15, joined the Royal Navy ( Fleet Air Arm ) and served for 30 years. I was seriously wounded in the retaking of the Falklands, saw members of my unit being maimed and killed and was the only survivor of an eight man team when an operation went wrong... eventually returning to family life in Redditch. I was able to identify and in some ways understand your family and the events that occurred, shaping the progression through the years. I thoroughly enjoyed your book and found the saga of normal life and war running in parallel fascinating. Regards and thank you.
For God, For Country ... - Geraldine ( Uxbridge ) - 15 January 2013
I thoroughly enjoyed this book. I read it every evening for a couple of weeks until sadly I reached the end. I was disappointed that the book ended just as the marriage of Dalton and Hetty really started to take off. In the face of all the obstacles, it was a marriage that could easily have faltered but for the strength of their love. I learnt lots of history from this book. I was shocked at the level of racism against the black GIs. I enjoyed reading about Hetty's early life in Shirland Road as my mum also lived there and was bombed out of her home I think. As a parent of children in their twenties I think it makes me realise what terrible dangers and experiences Dalton and Hetty survived. (As did many of their generation.) I found the history of Dalton's war remarkable, his fortitude in the face of such horror, his ability to survive, was it luck, the hand of God or being a good soldier with a talent for digging deep. Well done Robbie. your painstaking research has resulted in a really enjoyable book, a superb piece of social history and a beautiful tribute to the bravery of Dalton and Hetty. Well done.
I just couldn't put it down! - Liz Vernon, Chef du Pont, Normandy. - 13 July 2016
Bought it here in France and just couldn't put it down. What a wonderful story. I moved to France in 2006 after my husband died. I grew up in Tidworth and I thought the chapter on the town was excellent and so accurate especially the names of all the shops in Station Road, and all the names of the barracks where the men were billeted. I could visualise all of them. My late husband was in the Grenadier Guards and was in Candahar barracks when I met him. A family tradition was started in our house whilst the Americans were in Tidworth. After Christmas dinner my brother Peter and I were instructed to stand at our front gate and invite any Americans who were passing to come in and spend the rest of the day with us. We felt as a family that these young men were far away from their families at a time of year that is precious to us all. Wouldn't it be odd if your father was one of the Americans we invited for Christmas. After the war, the UK regiments were disembarked at Ludgershall as the branch line to Tidworth had been shut down. They had a good 10 mile march to the barracks in all weathers.
Impressive - R Pengelly. Cardiff - 31 October 2018
I wanted to say from the word go what an impressive work your book is - so full of interest and an extraordinary sense of accuracy in all its detail. I read little these days except for the Guardian newspaper but I might find I change my habits. Just to show I have been reading it may I mention that the word 'magnet' on page 99 should be 'magnate'! Most sincerely, R A Pengelly.
Excellent book - Peter Spiteri - 27 July 2013
Hi. We bought your book from you in Omaha Beach Museum on 5th July - my wife got you to sign it. I've just finished reading it and found it excellent. I've read many WWII books and yours ranks with the best of them. Congratulations.
Outstanding read. - Sharon Dolled, Englishtown, NJ. - 08 January 2019
Whilst on a cruise that took in a tour of Normandy, I bought the book from the author at a book signing event. An outstanding read.
For God, For Country ... - Eric Bacon, New Zealand - 27 January 2013
Read the book, cover to cover, just put it down somewhere special. I thoroughly enjoyed it, such a fine work, easy to read and you didn't pull any punches in London early days and the frontline warfare. (Uncle Jimmy was a bit of a b_____! I can remember all those times clearly, the bravery, the loss of friends I had made on the camp when a crew didn't return-the quiet approach of marching men with rubber soled boots-the segregation black/white and Union/Confed jibes-all leading up to D-Day. I have had to bathe my eyes a few times after reading parts of your story of events in the life of your dear Dad.
Grateful - Irene Stead - 16 July 2017
Hi Robbie. You signed my book at Omaha Museum in June 2014. We had taken our military vehicles over to Normandy for the 70th Anniversary of D-Day. I thoroughly enjoyed your book. You must be very proud of your father, we are all so grateful to him. Best wishes Irene Stead.
Impressive - R Pengelly. Cardiff - 31 October 2018
I wanted to say from the word go what an impressive work your book is - so full of interest and an extraordinary sense of accuracy in all its detail. I read little these days except for the Guardian newspaper but I might find I change my habits. Just to show I have been reading it may I mention that the word 'magnet' on page 99 should be 'magnate'! Most sincerely, R A Pengelly.
One of the best accounts of D-Day - Robert Braithwaite - 22 February 2016
A marvellous social history of an Anglo-American family as well as one of the best accounts I've read of D-Day and fighting in the bocage.
Amazing story. - Peter Sharland - 27 April 2016
A story that not only recalls the Normandy landings with such clarity and sensitivity, but also recounts an amazing story of a remarkable family.
Loved it. - Kate (Redditch) - 04 February 2013
A most enjoyable read. I was very moved by Dalton and Hetty's story and amazed by their strength of character despite the difficult circumstances they faced.
Your tome is in a special place on my bookshelf - Brian Leechmere - 29 May 2017
What a great story and really well told. Enjoyed it thoroughly and you have penned a wonderful tribute to your parents. I first visited the cemetery above Omaha with a group of Year 8 students. I was deeply moved by what I saw. The students were emotional to say the least. It was a squally day and I recall looking at the gravestones and looking at the sea and then reading the names on the gravestones and then looking at the sea again: "You came all this way to be placed in such awful danger?" I remember thinking. Your book is a great bit of social history too. When will the film makers come calling. I will place your tome in a special place on my bookshelf, after a number of friends have first read it! All the very best, Brian.
Wow, never had a book affect me like this. - Stephen Ragsdale - 09 February 2016
I could not put your book down. I finished reading it 2nd July which was appropriate because it was the anniversary of your father's wounding. The last several chapters brought both tears of joy and of sadness. As I read the book, I was afraid that your parents would end up separated by the Atlantic Ocean, and I was overjoyed as your dad put his arms around your mum as the ship left New York. What a love story! I could also relate to your book because I am a Virginian. Native Virginians take a great pride in our short but distinguished history in terms of the United States. So many of the stories about rural life in your book reminded me of stories I heard my dad talk about as I grew up. He was born and raised on a tobacco farm just southwest of Richmond where it gets unbearably hot in summer. He also satisfied his farmer's DNA by having a garden as did your dad. On the 4th July we celebrate the birthday of our nation, the democracy which yields the great freedoms that we so often take for granted. How grateful I am that men like your father were willing to fight and make perhaps the ultimate sacrifice in order to preserve those freedoms. They are what Tom Brokaw referred to as "The Greatest Generation". Finally I want to thank you for exerting what must have been a tremendous effort in order to write this book. I have never had a book affect me like this.
So glad you gave an email address at the end of your amazing book - - Jackie Hasler, Cardigan, Wales. - 22 April 2019
as I wanted to tell you how very much I enjoyed it. From the first to last page I have been encaptured and totally engrossed. I have felt I was there at every event. You have shared so much with your reader and I really admire the lengths you went to obtain your information. I am so glad you found 'The' water pump, you really deserved to. I have a cousin who has lived in Sainte Mere Eglise for many years, he has a fish business not so many miles away. He is 60 and I went to visit his family a couple of years ago, we hadn't met since childhood days. So quite a reunion as you might imagine but what a week's history lesson for me! I learnt so much, visiting the D Day landing beaches and war museums. My cousin is very much involved on the commemorative side of things. A friend came with me and it was she who actually bought your book. She lent it to me not so long ago and this morning I have just finished the last pages. What a story and I can't begin to tell you how humble it has made me feel. A few days ago I bought a copy to give to a friend and I know she will get the same experience from this book as I did. Thank you so much for sharing this true story and for all your hard work and determination to achieve this remarkable book.
What a beautiful book. - Valerie Robbins, Chalfont St Peter - 04 July 2016
I enjoyed every page. Yvonne at number 1, Joiners Close, lent it to me to read. I knew your mum and dad, your dad was the first person I knew when I moved here in 1996. (I live at No 7.) He often chatted and gave us seeds from Virginia, our patty pans were the pride of our garden. He was a lovely man and your mum was lovely too. Unfortunately your mum died the day after my husband 26/3 but I have a lovely DVD of my husbands 60th Birthday party in 1998 in our garden and your mum and dad are there. I remember you speaking at your mums funeral and this book added to the memories you told. I did not know your mum came from Paddington, all the streets and places were where my parents came from and I knew all about the area. I loved the story of your mum going to get beer for her nan in a jug, my mother used to do the same, especially the mention of Mr Strange,we knew him as Ginger Strange, it brought back happy memories. Well done, it was a lovely tribute to your parents and all those poor soldiers who suffered in world war 2. ps returning the book to No 1 where it will stay.
Impossible to put down - Sue Rawlings - 13 September 2021
My son, Steven Rawlings who knows you through Bob Harper, saw your book and purchased it for my birthday. What an amazing story - I found it impossible to put down and was so glad to hear that Hetty and Dalton lived a long and happy life. It must have been a very fascinating journey for you to find out everything about them and what happened on D-Day and afterwards. My father was in the Royal Navy and on a minesweeper stood off on D-Day having spent several weeks sweeping the channel for mines ahead of the invasion. Steven's Godparents owned a cottage at Torcross in Devon so we were well aware of what happened to the American troops using Slapton Sands to rehearse for the invasion. I think the Americans drew the short straw landing on Omaha Beach although I think there were a lot of cover ups about what actually went on and only those involved knew what the reality was. I remember going to see the film made about D-Day with my father and as we came out of the cinema, he turned to me and said 'They haven't got a clue what it was really like'. Like so many involved in WW2 he put it all behind him and got on with enjoying the life he and so many had fought for and so many paid the ultimate sacrifice.
Work of art. - Mike Barber - 26 February 2020
I've just finished reading your book. It's a work of art and labour of love. I met you briefly last year promoting the book and you kindly signed it for me (at the Overlord Museum if I recall correctly, on my arrival in Normandy 7th June). I did mention that I had heard good things about the book, to which you seemed surprised as you mentioned you were self promoting. Well, I certainly wasn't disappointed. It's a gripping and compelling read and a wonderful legacy for both you and your dad. As a matter of interest, following my visit to the museum, I went to the beach and unknowingly covered much of the area where your dad spent his first few hours on land. I even photographed the cliff area assaulted by your dad, and climbed up to WN73, taking a photograph across the beach from there. It was on reading your book that I realised this coincidence and quickly went to google maps and checked my photographs to confirm my suspicions. Your book has given me a whole new perspective. I'm returning to Normandy this year with a friend and will be there for the anniversary itself. I intend revisiting the areas mentioned above and will spare more than a thought for your dad. He was an amazing man. They all were. And they aren't forgotten! You made reference somewhere, saying it's your first ... and last book. What a way to start writing. And what a way to finish! Thanks for the unbelievable effort you put into this book. As I said, a work of art and a labour of love. I don't know if you'll be travelling back to Normandy later this year, but if you do, I hope our paths cross.
Brilliant - Noel Blackler ( Plympton, Devon ) - 25 March 2013
Brilliant book. Read it cover to cover. Would make a good television film.
My father served in B Co. - Charles Sicard - 23 February 2021
What a wonderful book you have written. It should be turned into a mini-series as it reads like a novel. I could smell Dalton's mother's biscuits. I could feel Hetty's terror in the blitz. Your book put on paper what my father told me about what happened to him from D-Day until he was severely wounded in action. You took me to the location where it happened. In telling the story of one GI you tell the story of many. I do hope it is turned into a mini- series.
For God ... - Alan Emery - 28 December 2012
The book is everything the reviewers claim. I was amazed at the thorough and acurate research - I was in the Royal Artillery. I was ten when the Yanks arrived and saw both sides of the coin. The handling of the more sensitive issues was first class and brought an emotional response which is rare for me. A very enjoyable read.
Compelling read - Lesley O'Hara - 22 April 2013
I found this true story of two peoples endeavours for love and happiness, captivating. The detail and descriptions gave me a vivid picture of events leading up to and after the Omaha landings and the quest to find hapiness in the years to follow. An emotional, compelling read.
Loved ever word - Lynne Hirleman, Iowa, USA - 30 December 2020
Just writing to say I finished your book and just loved every word written in it. What a work of love and passion. So sorry your father didn't live to see the final book. I am almost 73, female and live in Iowa. I was born in Berlin in 1947 when my father was stationed there after WWII and my mother was allowed to join him there. So in some ways, I felt like I was reading about a time in my parents' lives. My husband and I recently took a trip to Paris and one day toured Omaha Beach with a great guide, so I could visualize some of the horror of that landing on D-Day. We also saw the American cemetery there and I weep even now when I remember seeing the graves of all those mostly young men who gave their lives to halt Hitler and protect democracy. Thank you so much for telling your family's story. It was an honor to read it. Sincerely Lynne Hirleman
Congrats on an excellent work - Joe LeMense. Washington DC - 21 November 2015
I just finished your excellent account of your parents lives together from youth in war through old age in peace. You sir, are an excellent raconteur and I found your writing style lovely and free flowing. My father also served in WWII though far away in the Pacific. It pains me, now that he is long gone, that those battlefields were not accessible. I would have enjoyed the material and perhaps, with your book as example, tried my hand at a similar tome of love, life, and war.
A born author. - Billy Poole - 28 June 2017
This is truly a remarkable book, which leaves an indelible impression on the reader: it is a story that you will never forget reading. In its different scenes, readers will actually feel they are there themselves such is the authenticity and empathy of the writing. As well as telling the story with real sympathy and understanding, the author underpins everything with precise factual detail - which must have taken some considerable time to research and master. Slaughter is a born author. Let us hope he finds another subject with which he can connect so powerfully and produces another both as vivid and moving as this one is.
Had to visit grave. - Jacqueline Meyers - 13 January 2016
Read your book which really touched me and had to visit your Dad's grave. Left a penny on his tombstone in his honour ( old tradition when visiting a soldiers grave to let family know someone was thinking of their loved one).
Most moving story. - Peter Vallance - 09 October 2016
Hi Robbie. We met in June this year at Musee Memorial and I bought your book. Well, I have read it and I have to tell you that it is one of the most moving stories that I have read referencing WW2. The natural and very personal way that you have written it made it so easy to read and follow. It must have been very hard for you at times to make public some very personal family matters that happened never mind the romantic involvement of your mum and dad. The amount of research you did shines through and at times I was surprised how much parallel relative information you included which added to the overall understanding of the story. On a personal note, that you might find an interesting coincidence, we met very close to where Dalton landed in France. We had our caravan very close to where he went after breaking out from the beach head. On his return to England following his injuries, he was in the hospital at St Leonard's, Dorset and that was where we were in yet another caravan holiday. Believe when I tell you, that made me feel even closer to Dalton. Forgive me for saying that, but your book just invited emotional involvement and I wasn't resistant to that fact. Well last night I finished your excellent tome and again I have to tell you that I had a certain amount of moisture in my eye! Thanks again Robbie for a marvellous book. Kind regards Peter Vallance.
Incredible achievement - Peter Hayden (Author) Bewdley - 16 February 2013
Robbie - I just want to say, I finished it five minutes ago, right through to page 709, finding the pump. I expected to read maybe a hundred pages, skim the rest and write you a polite e mail - in fact, it's amazing. I'm full of admiration and a bit of envy. Everything you've written springs to life, your empathy is intense equally for the military action, for life in London, for the tranquility of Virginia, and for the female as much as the male characters. I can't get over it.
Excellent job - Jean Jeffreys (Virginia Beach, VA) - 28 May 2013
Excellent job Mr Slaughter. I've never xperienced anything like it, not from anything written down. I was struck by the enormity of what your dad went through, not just in the army but also putting up with Hetty's family the way he did. That Jimmy, I got so angry with him. I cried and I cried over the epilogue and I had already shed so many tears through the book. But the human side and the love they showed fo r each other was so uplifting. I felt as if I was standing to one side watching events. What a loving tribute to your dad and your mum. Dont blame your mum for not staying at the home place, what a brave woman, so young and how she loved your dad to go against her family like that. I read every word even the list of men of B Company who died. I'm sure Hetty's love for Dalton gave him the spark which helped him through those dreadful days in Normandy. I think it was a miracle you you found the water pump. Excellent. Fine job.
Hedgerow by hedgerow - Jocelyn Shannon (Hereford) - 29 March 2013
Don't know how to put into words what I've experienced in reading your book. Extraordinary, really is. Read the book, step by step, hedgerow by hedgerow. You took me with them, immersed in their lives, pulled at my heart strings. Excellent research, learnt more about WW2 in the few months Dalton was involved than had known before. So different, so unique and I read a lot. Excellent balance between historical and personal.
Darn good story - Peter Noonan (Hagley West Mids) - 22 January 2013
I became really involved with the characters. I have visited several of the places mentioned in the book and the description was perfect and brought them to life. I taught history in schools and the book covers many aspects of history without the reader even realising they are being educated as they read! I think the story would make a good film. I wonder how Dalton got on with Jimmy after Dalton returned to England and if Jimmy ever got back into cricket?
Great Read - Andy Bembridge - 28 June 2016
Hi Robbie, met you at the St Laurent Museum on 5th June and bought your book. I was the guy who was following his father's footsteps in the Black Watch and the one with the Willys jeep. I just want to let you know how much I enjoyed reading your family's journey, I finished it 12th June. It was so well written I honestly felt that I was with them. You have not only recorded history, you have kept it alive. More than once I was moved to tears WELL DONE. You have inspired me to carry on with my quest to follow the rest of my father's journey through France and into Germany where his war ended after being shot. If you still want to stay in touch I would be happy to give you a ride in the 1943 Willys I have. Thanks again for a great read. Warm regards Andy Bembridge.
You are an excellent writer. - Charles Smith - California - 26 June 2017
Thoroughly enjoyed your book from every aspect; your father's southern upbringing and your mother's English upbringing, your loving depiction of your parent's courtship and of course, my main interest, the Normandy Invasion human angle. You are an excellent writer. The account of your father's wounding and recuperation was well done. I was especially interested in your mother's reaction to the family farm. My mother's North Carolina family farm had been in the family since the revolutionary war and had no running water or electricity - both your parents experienced major culture shock in pursuit of their love. Very nice. Your father was part of the greatest generation. That is why I do what I do, touring the battle fields, interviewing them and honouring their sacrifice. I'm glad the 29th Infantry Div Association is using your book for excerpts. Our current warriors need to know their history. (Your book is currently making the rounds with my buddies).
Fantastic read - Jenny Blakeway - 18 July 2013
Well I have finished it! When Val gave it to me at Christmas I did think oh my God what a big book I will never get through that. I was proved wrong and what a fantastic read it was, you should be so proud of what you have achieved. A history lesson and love story all in one. I have seen many documentaries about GI brides and the American landings of D Day but your depth of detail was amazing. Our dad never talked about his wartime experiences he shut them away, so to have all the knowledge your father and friends gave you was wonderful. Your parents had a very special love affair and I am priviledged to have been able to know all about them.
Amazing - Michelle Smith - 22 May 2016
Mark finally lent me your book which I have devoured in about a week lol. Not at all my normal read and I found some of the technical war stuff hard going but overall amazing. Your father's perspective on war I found fascinating but then I guess you have to detach to a point or go insane. I'm curious as to why you literally give yourself a passing mention and how your brother fared in life and if you're still close to family and go back to Virginia. I'm glad you persevered with the book, it's quite an eye opener. Obviously everyone is aware, but to actually read a personal account makes it actually quite incredulous. Unbelievable how so many actually suffered/died in those horrendous circumstances and how anyone could carry out a normal life afterwards. So, love at first sight does exist lol and romance is not dead. Touches the soft side of my soul (rarely evident) and gives me hope. Had me in tears at the end but that's a sign of an amazing read that engages the reader so thank you.
Jonny Baird - Jonny Baird - 04 April 2013
Robbie, a truly enjoyable read ! Gripping story and very hard to put down. The incredible amount of research shines through, my knowledge of that part of history is now so much better. The shocking story's of suffering and the 'friendly fire' casualty's of WW2 are truly disturbing. A job very well done ,you should be proud. Jonny Baird, Passy ,France
Great Read - Mary (Church Hill) - 04 February 2013
I finished your book a few weeks ago and really enjoyed it; I don't know if enjoyed is the right word because I was in tears many times. You did a fantastic job even though you say you're not a writer, your family should be proud of you and it, as well as the sad bits there is also great humour and how you describe things in detail is fantastic. I had never given that war (or any war) much thought only that it is very wrong and should not be. Reading of the terrible suffering and loss of so many young lives that you describe in such detail shows how deplorable it was. Wasn't your father incredibly strong and the fact that things turned out well for him and your mother was great, for some reason he wasn't meant to buy that farm in Virginia - don't know whether you're glad or sorry about that! I'm sure you will agree that life was good for them in this country, both living quite healthy lives into old age - your father longer than other members of his family says something. (Your mother died on the same date as my mother - 27 May - my mother was 1988, both suddenly, so that was poignant to say the least.)
Worth the wait! - Dennis Howell (Bromsgrove) - 19 February 2013
A good read and worth the wait! Historical, romantic, grim, new beginnings - it's all there - human life with its trials and tribulations, strengths and frailties. The sharply contrasting pre-war lives in Virginia and Paddington - a war time romance with its difficulties - the grim reality and horror of the landings and the ensuing battle - the problems of early married life - as intended a tribute to Dalton - also to Hetty. I knew most of the story - now I feel I know and understand more about the couple, increasing my admiration of them. A well told story!
Enthralling - Julie Scarle - 19 February 2013
I found this book enthralling. It was an excellent story, well written and told. I thoroughly enjoyed it.
Just read this book.... - Val McTurk - 30 November 2012
This book gripped me from the very first page and held me until the last. It is the story of an unassuming young man drawn away from his desire to simply farm the land of his forebears by war. It follows his journey from America to Britain and on to the beaches of France. Along the way he meets a Britsh girl who becomes the love of his life. The book is written with incredible attention to detail. Vivid descriptions of nature reflect the mood swings and emotions of the major characters, together with impending events. These descriptions create suspense and give the reader a sense of foreboding about what is about to take place. The book gives insight into the historical, political, and social issues of the time whilst being a real 'good read'. I absolutely loved this book.
Beautifully written. - Colin Taylor, Arganchy, France - 12 May 2016
Met you in St Mere Eglise last year and have finally got round to reading your book. I have to say it was beautifully written and you take away the feeling that you have been reading about people you have known all your life, you weave the family with the military aspects beautifully. Your book is an excellent addition to the cannon of work that is WW2 and I hope it goes from strength to strength. I will add it to the reading list that I pass to all my customers, pointing it out in the various bookshops of museums that they visit also. Well done and congratulations on a fine work. I sincerely hope it will not be your last.
Poignant - Glyn Cardy of Crabbs Cross, Redditch - 27 April 2021
I have just finished reading the above; which I found both poignant and compelling. I was carried along by the narrative and how in an abstract way, my own life followed a similar progression - mirrored in your story. I left home ay 15, joined the Royal Navy ( Fleet Air Arm ) and served for 30 years. I was seriously wounded in the retaking of the Falklands, saw members of my unit being maimed and killed and was the only survivor of an eight man team when an operation went wrong... eventually returning to family life in Redditch. I was able to identify and in some ways understand your family and the events that occurred, shaping the progression through the years. I thoroughly enjoyed your book and found the saga of normal life and war running in parallel fascinating. Regards and thank you.
For God, For Country ... - Geraldine ( Uxbridge ) - 15 January 2013
I thoroughly enjoyed this book. I read it every evening for a couple of weeks until sadly I reached the end. I was disappointed that the book ended just as the marriage of Dalton and Hetty really started to take off. In the face of all the obstacles, it was a marriage that could easily have faltered but for the strength of their love. I learnt lots of history from this book. I was shocked at the level of racism against the black GIs. I enjoyed reading about Hetty's early life in Shirland Road as my mum also lived there and was bombed out of her home I think. As a parent of children in their twenties I think it makes me realise what terrible dangers and experiences Dalton and Hetty survived. (As did many of their generation.) I found the history of Dalton's war remarkable, his fortitude in the face of such horror, his ability to survive, was it luck, the hand of God or being a good soldier with a talent for digging deep. Well done Robbie. your painstaking research has resulted in a really enjoyable book, a superb piece of social history and a beautiful tribute to the bravery of Dalton and Hetty. Well done.
I just couldn't put it down! - Liz Vernon, Chef du Pont, Normandy. - 13 July 2016
Bought it here in France and just couldn't put it down. What a wonderful story. I moved to France in 2006 after my husband died. I grew up in Tidworth and I thought the chapter on the town was excellent and so accurate especially the names of all the shops in Station Road, and all the names of the barracks where the men were billeted. I could visualise all of them. My late husband was in the Grenadier Guards and was in Candahar barracks when I met him. A family tradition was started in our house whilst the Americans were in Tidworth. After Christmas dinner my brother Peter and I were instructed to stand at our front gate and invite any Americans who were passing to come in and spend the rest of the day with us. We felt as a family that these young men were far away from their families at a time of year that is precious to us all. Wouldn't it be odd if your father was one of the Americans we invited for Christmas. After the war, the UK regiments were disembarked at Ludgershall as the branch line to Tidworth had been shut down. They had a good 10 mile march to the barracks in all weathers.
Impressive - R Pengelly. Cardiff - 31 October 2018
I wanted to say from the word go what an impressive work your book is - so full of interest and an extraordinary sense of accuracy in all its detail. I read little these days except for the Guardian newspaper but I might find I change my habits. Just to show I have been reading it may I mention that the word 'magnet' on page 99 should be 'magnate'! Most sincerely, R A Pengelly.
Excellent book - Peter Spiteri - 27 July 2013
Hi. We bought your book from you in Omaha Beach Museum on 5th July - my wife got you to sign it. I've just finished reading it and found it excellent. I've read many WWII books and yours ranks with the best of them. Congratulations.
Outstanding read. - Sharon Dolled, Englishtown, NJ. - 08 January 2019
Whilst on a cruise that took in a tour of Normandy, I bought the book from the author at a book signing event. An outstanding read.
For God, For Country ... - Eric Bacon, New Zealand - 27 January 2013
Read the book, cover to cover, just put it down somewhere special. I thoroughly enjoyed it, such a fine work, easy to read and you didn't pull any punches in London early days and the frontline warfare. (Uncle Jimmy was a bit of a b_____! I can remember all those times clearly, the bravery, the loss of friends I had made on the camp when a crew didn't return-the quiet approach of marching men with rubber soled boots-the segregation black/white and Union/Confed jibes-all leading up to D-Day. I have had to bathe my eyes a few times after reading parts of your story of events in the life of your dear Dad.
Grateful - Irene Stead - 16 July 2017
Hi Robbie. You signed my book at Omaha Museum in June 2014. We had taken our military vehicles over to Normandy for the 70th Anniversary of D-Day. I thoroughly enjoyed your book. You must be very proud of your father, we are all so grateful to him. Best wishes Irene Stead.
Impressive - R Pengelly. Cardiff - 31 October 2018
I wanted to say from the word go what an impressive work your book is - so full of interest and an extraordinary sense of accuracy in all its detail. I read little these days except for the Guardian newspaper but I might find I change my habits. Just to show I have been reading it may I mention that the word 'magnet' on page 99 should be 'magnate'! Most sincerely, R A Pengelly.
One of the best accounts of D-Day - Robert Braithwaite - 22 February 2016
A marvellous social history of an Anglo-American family as well as one of the best accounts I've read of D-Day and fighting in the bocage.
Amazing story. - Peter Sharland - 27 April 2016
A story that not only recalls the Normandy landings with such clarity and sensitivity, but also recounts an amazing story of a remarkable family.
Loved it. - Kate (Redditch) - 04 February 2013
A most enjoyable read. I was very moved by Dalton and Hetty's story and amazed by their strength of character despite the difficult circumstances they faced.
Your tome is in a special place on my bookshelf - Brian Leechmere - 29 May 2017
What a great story and really well told. Enjoyed it thoroughly and you have penned a wonderful tribute to your parents. I first visited the cemetery above Omaha with a group of Year 8 students. I was deeply moved by what I saw. The students were emotional to say the least. It was a squally day and I recall looking at the gravestones and looking at the sea and then reading the names on the gravestones and then looking at the sea again: "You came all this way to be placed in such awful danger?" I remember thinking. Your book is a great bit of social history too. When will the film makers come calling. I will place your tome in a special place on my bookshelf, after a number of friends have first read it! All the very best, Brian.
Wow, never had a book affect me like this. - Stephen Ragsdale - 09 February 2016
I could not put your book down. I finished reading it 2nd July which was appropriate because it was the anniversary of your father's wounding. The last several chapters brought both tears of joy and of sadness. As I read the book, I was afraid that your parents would end up separated by the Atlantic Ocean, and I was overjoyed as your dad put his arms around your mum as the ship left New York. What a love story! I could also relate to your book because I am a Virginian. Native Virginians take a great pride in our short but distinguished history in terms of the United States. So many of the stories about rural life in your book reminded me of stories I heard my dad talk about as I grew up. He was born and raised on a tobacco farm just southwest of Richmond where it gets unbearably hot in summer. He also satisfied his farmer's DNA by having a garden as did your dad. On the 4th July we celebrate the birthday of our nation, the democracy which yields the great freedoms that we so often take for granted. How grateful I am that men like your father were willing to fight and make perhaps the ultimate sacrifice in order to preserve those freedoms. They are what Tom Brokaw referred to as "The Greatest Generation". Finally I want to thank you for exerting what must have been a tremendous effort in order to write this book. I have never had a book affect me like this.
So glad you gave an email address at the end of your amazing book - - Jackie Hasler, Cardigan, Wales. - 22 April 2019
as I wanted to tell you how very much I enjoyed it. From the first to last page I have been encaptured and totally engrossed. I have felt I was there at every event. You have shared so much with your reader and I really admire the lengths you went to obtain your information. I am so glad you found 'The' water pump, you really deserved to. I have a cousin who has lived in Sainte Mere Eglise for many years, he has a fish business not so many miles away. He is 60 and I went to visit his family a couple of years ago, we hadn't met since childhood days. So quite a reunion as you might imagine but what a week's history lesson for me! I learnt so much, visiting the D Day landing beaches and war museums. My cousin is very much involved on the commemorative side of things. A friend came with me and it was she who actually bought your book. She lent it to me not so long ago and this morning I have just finished the last pages. What a story and I can't begin to tell you how humble it has made me feel. A few days ago I bought a copy to give to a friend and I know she will get the same experience from this book as I did. Thank you so much for sharing this true story and for all your hard work and determination to achieve this remarkable book.
What a beautiful book. - Valerie Robbins, Chalfont St Peter - 04 July 2016
I enjoyed every page. Yvonne at number 1, Joiners Close, lent it to me to read. I knew your mum and dad, your dad was the first person I knew when I moved here in 1996. (I live at No 7.) He often chatted and gave us seeds from Virginia, our patty pans were the pride of our garden. He was a lovely man and your mum was lovely too. Unfortunately your mum died the day after my husband 26/3 but I have a lovely DVD of my husbands 60th Birthday party in 1998 in our garden and your mum and dad are there. I remember you speaking at your mums funeral and this book added to the memories you told. I did not know your mum came from Paddington, all the streets and places were where my parents came from and I knew all about the area. I loved the story of your mum going to get beer for her nan in a jug, my mother used to do the same, especially the mention of Mr Strange,we knew him as Ginger Strange, it brought back happy memories. Well done, it was a lovely tribute to your parents and all those poor soldiers who suffered in world war 2. ps returning the book to No 1 where it will stay.
Impossible to put down - Sue Rawlings - 13 September 2021
My son, Steven Rawlings who knows you through Bob Harper, saw your book and purchased it for my birthday. What an amazing story - I found it impossible to put down and was so glad to hear that Hetty and Dalton lived a long and happy life. It must have been a very fascinating journey for you to find out everything about them and what happened on D-Day and afterwards. My father was in the Royal Navy and on a minesweeper stood off on D-Day having spent several weeks sweeping the channel for mines ahead of the invasion. Steven's Godparents owned a cottage at Torcross in Devon so we were well aware of what happened to the American troops using Slapton Sands to rehearse for the invasion. I think the Americans drew the short straw landing on Omaha Beach although I think there were a lot of cover ups about what actually went on and only those involved knew what the reality was. I remember going to see the film made about D-Day with my father and as we came out of the cinema, he turned to me and said 'They haven't got a clue what it was really like'. Like so many involved in WW2 he put it all behind him and got on with enjoying the life he and so many had fought for and so many paid the ultimate sacrifice.
Work of art. - Mike Barber - 26 February 2020
I've just finished reading your book. It's a work of art and labour of love. I met you briefly last year promoting the book and you kindly signed it for me (at the Overlord Museum if I recall correctly, on my arrival in Normandy 7th June). I did mention that I had heard good things about the book, to which you seemed surprised as you mentioned you were self promoting. Well, I certainly wasn't disappointed. It's a gripping and compelling read and a wonderful legacy for both you and your dad. As a matter of interest, following my visit to the museum, I went to the beach and unknowingly covered much of the area where your dad spent his first few hours on land. I even photographed the cliff area assaulted by your dad, and climbed up to WN73, taking a photograph across the beach from there. It was on reading your book that I realised this coincidence and quickly went to google maps and checked my photographs to confirm my suspicions. Your book has given me a whole new perspective. I'm returning to Normandy this year with a friend and will be there for the anniversary itself. I intend revisiting the areas mentioned above and will spare more than a thought for your dad. He was an amazing man. They all were. And they aren't forgotten! You made reference somewhere, saying it's your first ... and last book. What a way to start writing. And what a way to finish! Thanks for the unbelievable effort you put into this book. As I said, a work of art and a labour of love. I don't know if you'll be travelling back to Normandy later this year, but if you do, I hope our paths cross.
Brilliant - Noel Blackler ( Plympton, Devon ) - 25 March 2013
Brilliant book. Read it cover to cover. Would make a good television film.
My father served in B Co. - Charles Sicard - 23 February 2021
What a wonderful book you have written. It should be turned into a mini-series as it reads like a novel. I could smell Dalton's mother's biscuits. I could feel Hetty's terror in the blitz. Your book put on paper what my father told me about what happened to him from D-Day until he was severely wounded in action. You took me to the location where it happened. In telling the story of one GI you tell the story of many. I do hope it is turned into a mini- series.